Decisions

In life there are decisions to make. Some are really easy, others are harder than anything you have ever had to decide before. Life throws a lot of shit at you sometimes, but in the end, you have to realize that the craziness was thrown at you to make you stronger. I have yet to realize this.
You cannot be selfish when making huge choices in life, though. Yes, you must do what you feel will make you happy, truly happy in the end, but you also must realize that it may hurt someone else. Is it worth making that decision then? How much pain and anguish are you willing to cause to make yourself happy? If you love someone so deeply and so strongly, why wouldn't you even consider their feelings?!?! Why would you take the chance of killing that person, just because you are indecisive? Yes, nerves and fear can cause you a lot of stress, but just remember that the person (or people) that are involved in you life can sense and feel those feeling too.
Are you willing to take a chance in losing someone that you love? Are you willing to take the chance that they may not be there by the time you decide what you want? Love is an eternal thing, and it lasts forever, so when making tough choices, always keep in mind that when you think and act with what your heart says, you can never make the wrong decision.