You Can't Judge a Book...
I was talking to a friend last night, and we hit a topic that I felt was very important and over-looked too often...The idea of judging a book by its cover.
It all comes down to idea of preconceived notions of people based on outward appearances and actions, as well as knowing tidbits about themselves that are falsified ideas based on what is expected to be of them in your mind. A person who is a "complete opposite" can be the one who spikes the greatest feelings of interest and intrigue. When these two feelings get started, there's no going back. You want to know more and more about them, and in doing so, the prior feelings of "knowing" about that person are erased, and you realize that there's so much more there.
It's hard to accurately portray exactly what is going on in my mind. I've been taking walks a lot in an attempt to cleanse and sort out all the stuff that's jumbled in the good ole cranium. It's been working to a point, but there's always more thoughts to be thunk (teehee). Never a dull moment...Which is good because it gets me into, and keeps me out of trouble all the same. So yea, I have lots of things going on, and I am loving every second of them.
I guess the last point I will make for this blurb is about how others make you feel. I know I said in a previous blog that I go into work in a wicked-chipper mood due to the fact that it seems to cheer up everyone else, but I don't think I'd be able to be that way 24/7 if it wasn't for mitigating factors (i.e. people) that I am surrounded by. Sometimes, the last person that you would ever think to enter your life, is the one who sparks something you totally forgot was there...And that spark is one of the coolest feelings. Life's too short to worry about everything and to "what if" it all...You just have to savor the flavor of the little things and enjoy the now, because when you do, happiness is always around you.
It all comes down to idea of preconceived notions of people based on outward appearances and actions, as well as knowing tidbits about themselves that are falsified ideas based on what is expected to be of them in your mind. A person who is a "complete opposite" can be the one who spikes the greatest feelings of interest and intrigue. When these two feelings get started, there's no going back. You want to know more and more about them, and in doing so, the prior feelings of "knowing" about that person are erased, and you realize that there's so much more there.
It's hard to accurately portray exactly what is going on in my mind. I've been taking walks a lot in an attempt to cleanse and sort out all the stuff that's jumbled in the good ole cranium. It's been working to a point, but there's always more thoughts to be thunk (teehee). Never a dull moment...Which is good because it gets me into, and keeps me out of trouble all the same. So yea, I have lots of things going on, and I am loving every second of them.
I guess the last point I will make for this blurb is about how others make you feel. I know I said in a previous blog that I go into work in a wicked-chipper mood due to the fact that it seems to cheer up everyone else, but I don't think I'd be able to be that way 24/7 if it wasn't for mitigating factors (i.e. people) that I am surrounded by. Sometimes, the last person that you would ever think to enter your life, is the one who sparks something you totally forgot was there...And that spark is one of the coolest feelings. Life's too short to worry about everything and to "what if" it all...You just have to savor the flavor of the little things and enjoy the now, because when you do, happiness is always around you.


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